In memoriam: His Majesty King Harald V of Norway, 1937–2026. King of Norway from 1991. Died 28 August 2026. Norway is in national mourning.
In memoriam
Harald Rex, 21 February 1937 to 28 August 2026
King of Norway from 17 January 1991 until his death, aged 89. He was the oldest reigning monarch in Europe.
King Harald V died on the morning of Friday 28 August 2026, at 06:35, with his family around him. He had been king for 35 years. Norway is now in a period of national mourning and the flags are at half mast. Messages Never Seen is built and run from Norway, and for a lot of us he is the only king we have ever had.
Prince Harald was born at Skaugum in Asker on 21 February 1937. He was the first prince born on Norwegian soil in 567 years. The last one was Olav Håkonsson, who became king in 1380. His father was King Olav V, his mother was Crown Princess Märtha, and his grandfather was Haakon VII, the king Norway elected in 1905.
He was three years old when Germany invaded on 9 April 1940. At Elverum he was separated from his father, and he was evacuated with his mother and his sisters Ragnhild and Astrid, first to Sweden and then to Pooks Hill in Maryland, where the family stayed for the rest of the war. He came home to Oslo on 7 June 1945 with his grandfather, to crowds that filled the streets.
He became Crown Prince at twenty, when Haakon VII died in 1957, and he took the throne on 17 January 1991 after his father died. He kept the motto his father and grandfather had used before him: Alt for Norge, All for Norway. He and Queen Sonja were consecrated in Nidaros Cathedral on 23 June 1991, a ceremony no other monarchy in Europe holds.
He changed a lot about how the monarchy worked. The palace budgets were made public, the press was let closer to the family than ever before, and he held to the line that his children could choose who they married. In Kiberg in 1992 he gave the speech that rehabilitated the Norwegian partisans who had fought on the Soviet side in the war, still counted as one of the most important speeches of his reign. When floods and avalanches hit, he went and stood with the people they hit.
“Alt for Norge.”
The motto he took from his father and grandfather, and kept for 35 years.He sailed at three Olympics: Tokyo in 1964, where he carried Norway’s flag at the opening, Mexico City in 1968 and Munich in 1972. He kept racing long after that. He won the One Ton world championship at Kiel in 1987 in Fram X, a fiftieth birthday present from Norwegian business, and took bronze in San Francisco the year after. In 2005, at sixty-eight, he won the European championship in offshore sailing in Fram XV. He won eight royal cups, took the Holmenkollen Medal in 2007, and was made an honorary member of the Norwegian Olympic and Paralympic Committee in 2025.
He was admitted to Rikshospitalet on 17 August 2026 with fluid retention, a side effect of the cortisone treatment for haemolytic anaemia, and was signed off for two weeks. A week later the sick leave was extended with no end date, and a bacterial infection was found in his blood. On 27 August the palace said his condition was very serious. The family gathered, and ministers, bishops and the President of the Storting cut their trips short. He died the next morning, one day before his and Queen Sonja’s 58th wedding anniversary.
This site is for the things people never got to say, so it would be strange to say nothing today.
Messages Never Seen is developed in Norway. During the mourning period state institutions fly the flag at half mast, and councils and county authorities have been asked to do the same.
“Alt for Norge” All for Norway
You were the king for every single day of my life. Thank you for spending yours on us. Hvil i fred.
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crazy to think that my little msg exchange in april got this far
this is the original girl from the very first long rj msg chain btw!! its hard to keep track now when theres so many rjs lmaoo
wait i missed a lot. how many rjs were involved in that convo..? also who said it was an ick for me to respond fast lmao
That said, Do you remember my favorite color.
Wouldnt you like to know weather boy. Haha jk. Its Roy.
what is rjs first name
If I meant anything to you at all would you please reach out to me. I would like to talk and probably only talk because Im not as stable as Id like to
I just want a genuine connection but I always mess it up. I tried talking to new people and I cant sustain anything of substance, its a house of cards
I try to be on fire all the time but I end up in a low spot and cant get out for a while. Its all I can do to focus on staying put together.
Im very hot and cold. I dont know how to help it. All the people I have loved still matter to me deeply. Ive hurt a lot of people. Its probably me.
why are you on this site it took two seconds. ick
homophobic?? what is this in reply to.. sorry, its late for me so my brain is foggy
homophobic ?
tell me more about your bsf! even though theres a .00000000000001% chance theres any correlation with us, its nice to relate to someone about this
platonic love is so hard, right? esp between boys and girls...i guess it's just hard to find a good middle space with it all
for me, i'm still not over how much he matters to me, and how much i don't matter to him anymore. i'd do it all again though, i still love that guy
its hard to want so much of someone and have them fluctuate between wanting-and not wanting-you at all.
man, i feel you on the attachment and abandonment thing. honestly, i lived the same thing with my rj. that stuff will RUIN a person i swear..
also, which rj are you?? june 2, 8, or 9?? theres been like 5 different rjs while ive been here haha
in case you couldnt already tell.. i really like learning about people. theres a lot of very interesting people here with their own stories, yk?
thats awesome, the feeling lighter thing. i wish things worked out like that with me and my rj. what was ur situation w/ ur bsf, if thats ok to ask?
for the rjs on june 2, 8, and 9, tell me about the ones you lost, i will listen. i still stupidly hope my rj will be here one day.
i check this name sometimes just to see if any other rjs have responded. i wonder if that guy i was back and forth with for a while is still here
this is from the girl that was apart of that stream of msgs a few months back btw! my rj and i arent on very good terms now.. just how life goes ig
hi multiple rjs. i hope yall are all doing well. its kind of crazy to think that my convo here months ago is still a thing that people relate to.
That is so for real brother. Past year has been so much change, but I wish I could have my cake and eat it too.
reading this as an rj has been wild. i miss my bsf too. ive changed so much in the last yr yet my dreams still cling on to her. i kinda hate it.
i know it'll never go back to how it was, but thats okay, i have to live with it. we graduate this week, but i'm still hung up on him, i suppose.
oh hello again, i wasnt expecting a reply since it's been so long. i reached out to my rj a bit ago. it's not the same, but i tried. how are you?
The foul taste you have for my name is gone, that makes me glad.
its stupid but these interactions have shifted me. i couldnt think of those letters without a bad taste, but now they belong to something decent again
its stupid, but these interactions with you have shifted me. i couldnt think of the name without a foul taste, but now it belongs to decency again.
anyway, at my core im just a sappy person who cares too much. i like learning about other people, so tell me whatever you want to-i'm here to listen.
stranger you've changed my perspective--"rj" doesn't feel like as much of a curse anymore, just a name. the ache feels lighter, less loaded.
i learned to love it because he truly was everything at a time. being human is so beautiful and so torturous--loving is a gift and a curse.
i used to hate the name the j in his "rj" stood for. the name had sounded snobby to me, like a kid who knew their parents earnings cause it was GOOD
that i take my drinks iced, that i have so much love in my heart for strangers on the street and internet--but i wanted HIM to know it, him.
i think as humans we have the desire to be known. i want it to be known that i love yellow, cry too hard at movies, think of the people with music
my rj used to treat me like i was one of the most special things in the world. now it's as if we'd never lived and hurt, never knew the intricacies.
i do have hope that they can work too, its just a different kind of codependency, and frankly, it's gutwrenching in the end.
thats one of the things about boy-girl friendships too. it feels like no matter how good they are, they're bound to crumble. i wish it wasnt the case
it's hard to let go of people who you know are troubled too, especially when you're close with them. 6yrs is a while, a lot of life lived since.
man, i feel that. theres something devastating about losing the people that became part of your daily routine, part of you. it feels like a lost cause
Both of these wonderful God given woman I have hurt in my relations with them,If I had a choice to go back I would debate meeting them for their sake.
But even through all of our ups and downs I cant help but choose to love her. Even though her love language and my beliefs conflict I am hopeful.
2 is a girl that we did end up on and off, even now I feel like were supposed to be together. I wish her the best because she has a lot of problems.
We used to play games and used to talk every night. She had a lot of good opinions imo lol. She put me on to good shows, I think of all we were often.
I couldnt leave it alone and because of it things had to come to a close and she moved away-year or so after. could reach out but she wouldnt want to
I knew her at a very pivotal point in her life and I was a ban influence in every sense looking back. I kept trying to push the limit for my is gain.
Thank you for sharing. 1 is a girl I knew almost 6 years ago now, almost no chance of holding a conversation. Im sure she wants nothing to do with me.
what about the people you miss? i think the chance that we aren't eachothers person is even slimmer now, but now im curious just as a person, yeah?
thats the shortened version. it sounds pathetic, i know--i wish i could be over it all but i tend to hold on a little too much.
nowadays, things are very on and off between us. we don't talk like we used to, but i miss the version of us that used to-i miss that version of him
i'd gotten re-diagnossed with MDD and GAD last year at the same time things shifted between us, so i lost that support line.
anyway, he'd always been someone that i deeply trusted, but he started to weaponize my own truth against me, threatening to spread it.
id moved from across the country a few years back, and he was the first person to know about why that was the case (childhood trauma, no big deal now)
i fear its quite the long story. we were very close friends for a bit, and we used to call practically 24/7.
i found it the same way!! i've had letters sitting there for years that are still yet to be sent. this site is so much more efficient.
y'all ever had a friend that you miss real bad all the time? he's like that for me. frankly i think it's stupid but i can't help it, it's human
How was your relationship with him like? The highs and the lows?
I might not be him, but the chance is not below 0. The effect you have by even potentially being anyone that has known me personally means a lot. Thnx
Thank you for that, it really does touch my heart for you to say those things. Also, I found this because Unsent is slow and not as good as this.
and listen, you WILL make things right. youre trying and that shows you care. keep going stranger, you have good in you. id love to talk more pro-rj
its like ive become attached to a stranger in a way. you share his name, and hell maybe you ARE him, but regardless, you think well. i respect that
you have lots of decency in you, i respect that. weve all wronged people, but theres a lot of hope for you man. its crazy how we meet people here
i fear you may not be my rj, i doubt he even knows of this site. either way, is it bad that i wish you were? you remind me of him in the early days
i understand. i think that youre already doing well by acknowledging what you may have messed up-thats telling into who you are!! good on you
My hope is always to make things right, yknow?
I want a covenant commitment but I truly am unsure if I will ever be ready for something that long term. I am fickle and I don't know why.
In my heart I want to make things right between everyone Ive wronged, it hurts me that I can never get it right.
Ah, I see. As a professional RJ, I have hurt many. My heart goes out to you and Im sorry. I have ruined good things for pushing too hard.
i've vented a lot, so what about you? tell me about the person/people you're missing. i'm listening.
it's not all his fault either--we've both had our ups and downs. i just miss how he used to be, how the two of us were.
i hope the same. it's not that i haven't tried, but rather that i've tried too much and the same results keep happening.
There are so many RJs in the world but in my heart I hope that you are talking about me.
You vent an awful lot about how you miss him, if you really feel that strongly, why don't you say something? You might be one of the people Im missing
ever have a friend that you miss really bad? he's like that for me. it's stupid but i suppose feeling deeply 4 someone is part of being human
god its honestly embarassing that i'm still hung up on it--he's js the 1st person to treat my problems like they mattered rather than w pity i guess
to be brief, i had this bsf named rj. we were mad tight but we had a lot of ups and downs--that kind of platonic-romantic-but-not friendship, yk?
TWO RJS WHAT?? why do you both type like him this is unnerving
This is a different RJ then was involved in the conversation. If its really on your heart then speak up here. Im listening. Reveal what is there.
im sorry its just the way you're phrasing things that reminds me of him--"all but guarentee" fk man, fk. ik its prob not, but i want it to be. so bad.
it doesn't matter. is it bad that i want it to be you? can we just try? i'm sorry for being too hopeful, i know i'm prob wrong. i just miss u if its u
(4 the reply) i'm too nervous to text if it isn't actually you--what letter does your last name start with? i want to be hopeful, so hopeful.
this is for the person who said to text. if it's you, will you tell me? will you write that it was you on this site? please i need to know imy
this is my favorite color. you would know that if you still cared, if you still reached out. stop acting hard. i miss the days when you were mature.
i wanted to text you tonight--i've been wanting to, but i won't. it's no good for me anymore, and you don't listen even though you act like you do.
i love you so much, i'm sorry i don't show it as much as i should (getting better i think) but thank you for loving me anyway - tori
This is RJ. Dont say in another life. This is the only life here we have. Talk to me. We are all broken people. May God bless your caring soul. -Yours
I cant listen to Mac anymore without thinking about you. i wish things worked out between us. Maybe in another life Darling.
I wish you'd reach out, even if we dont talk Im still here for you. I miss you so much it hurts
I don't know what I want from you but I always got the feeling that you secretly love me but would never confess. Please tell me I'm wrong. -B
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