To: thepersonreadingthis
ok that sounds good
To: ThePersonReadingThis
Thank youu, I'll post a reply under the same name if it goes well!
To: thepersonreadingthis
yeaa that sounds better lol
To: ThePersonReadingThis
Maybeee, but I might also ask the person I'm already online friends with and see if they have any ideas on what's the best thing to say and when??
To: thepersonreadingthis
ok so i totally get it now, I feel like you should just start with the og "hey i think youre cool and i want to be friends" and see how they react?
To: ThePersonReadingThis
(in case that sounds confusing, it's a channel with me, the person I want to be online friends with, and someone I'm already online friends with)
To: ThePersonReadingThis
(btw I'm already close online friends with the other person on the channel so it's basically like a group chat except I'm not friends with the other)
To: ThePersonReadingThis
but it just got acknowledged and I don't want it to feel forced obviously! Soo is there any way I can casually ask without it being weird?
To: ThePersonReadingThis
How exactly do I ask? We have a channel thing with us and one other person and I said on there that I'm available to talk one on one if they wanted to
To: thepersonreadingthis
OHHH!!! ok so go for it? you have nothing to lose, you make a huge difference in your life with the smallest choice you make, i promise
To: ThePersonReadingThis
Well basically we both own fanpages for our favourite singers and that's the only way we talk, but I want to talk one on one and be online friends!!
To: thepersonreadingthis
Ohhh okok i get it now!!, so you are online friends but you want to talk about more serious topics instead of like basic small talk?
To: ThePersonReadingThis
Well I mean it's just like we only talk about our favourite singers and I'd love to be actual online friends, that's what I mean!
To: thepersonreadingthis
maybe they like the contrast of real life and a online friendship but nothing that seems more tangible?
To: ThePersonReadingThis
I mean we still talk abt our favourite singers and whatever but I would love to talk to them abt random life stuff too but yeah
To: thepersonreadingthis
yeah I get it, but honestly you dont have to force sb to see how cool you are no matter how cool they might seem, if they want to miss out its on them
To: ThePersonReadingThis
Yeahh I get it because like it can be a bit crxxpy since it's online, but I think this person is so cool and I would just love to be friends but idk
To: thepersonreadingthis
OHHHH yeah I saw it, tbh, you seem like a cool person but if they dont want to talk then its ok just let it be, ik its a little sad but its gon be ok
To: ThePersonReadingThis
I already sent an explanation under the name "ThePersonReadingThis" but it was just at a wrong time so nobody saw it sadly
To: ThePersonReadingThis
that I'm available to chat on a few apps and stuff, I don't really talk with them much but I really want to be friends with them!
To: ThePersonReadingThis
How do I know if I have a chance at being friends with someone online? I keep telling this person I'm available if they want but they only acknowledge